THE FERRIS WHEEL OF LIFE
One moment we are on top of the world; the next the world seems to be on top of us. That's the human condition! We all, it seems, swing from hunky-dory to topsy-turvy and we don't always understand why.
A bend in the road is not the end of the road, unless you fail to make the turn. You may feel that you have much to be concerned about. You have, I'm sure, coped with more in the past and you have handled it brilliantly. You don't have to let your current problems get to you. Some things are not problems to be solved, they are facts to be coped with.
The difference between stumbling blocks and stepping stones is how you use them. Don't allow those stumbling block the power to make you fall. Instead look at the situation, decide what your best course of action is in dealing with the situation and then turn it into a stepping stones. Looking back - ask yourself what you can learn from this experience. Use what you have learned as a stepping stone to move forward by putting the past where it belongs freeing you to focus on what's ahead.
At times our stumbling blocks make us feel like we are alone in these situations. You are never alone. You need to make a list of your go-to people. These people can include anyone who builds you up, who you feel open and comfortable with, individuals who have experienced what you are going through, people who you respect and trust. We all need help at times. Asking for help often takes courage and confidence in yourself and in the person you are seeking.
Asking for help is totally different than complaining so do not confuse the two. People who constantly complain are dwellers of their problems not looking to solve them - rather make a point to let everyone know how hard their life is. Successful people on the other hand, accept the responsibility for finding the advice they need in solving their issues.
We only ride this Ferris wheel once and it naturally goes up and then down. Try to put your problems in a list of importance. Do not dwell on things that won't matter in a week or month. Give them a glance, put them where they belong and move on. Give yourself time-outs to recuperate, recharge and relax both your body, mind and spirit. Often after a good rest you will see your situation in a whole new light bringing with it new solutions.
We have all heard the words - Don't take life too seriously - we'll never get out alive.